By: RO Maung Shwe
Cox’s Bazar, Bangladesh – Nur Jahan, a 35-year-old Rohingya widow, has endured extraordinary hardships, countless challenges, and unimaginable pain. Despite losing her parents and her first husband, she continues to demonstrate remarkable resilience and courage. Her story is a powerful testament to the strength of the human spirit and the unwavering determination of Rohingya women to rebuild their lives.
Early Life in Rakhine State
Born into a middle-class family in Mangbrang village of Kyawkto Township—also known as “Fattorkila”—Nur Jahan grew up in a relatively stable environment. Her father, Gura Mia, was a businessman trading in dried fish, while her mother, Nur Baher, managed their household. The family, which included five siblings, lived comfortably until tragedy began to strike.
Nur Jahan’s elder brother, Mohammad Imran, left for Malaysia in search of better opportunities to support the family. However, after his departure, the family lost contact with him. Despite years of searching through neighbors and acquaintances in Malaysia and Thailand, they never discovered his whereabouts. The uncertainty weighed heavily on the family, particularly her father, who often fell ill due to the emotional toll of missing his son.
Forced Displacement
Nur Jahan’s family was forcibly displaced from their home in Kyawkto by the Myanmar government, relocating to northern Maungdaw Township near the Bangladeshi border. The abrupt move disrupted their lives, and the unfamiliar surroundings made daily survival a struggle. However, her father eventually established a new business trading in dried chilies and turmeric, bringing a semblance of stability back to the family.
As she grew up, Nur Jahan attended both school and a local Maqtab, where she received religious education. However, her life changed drastically in 2012 during the ethnic violence in Rakhine State, which marked the beginning of widespread persecution of the Rohingya.
The Disappearance of Her Father
During this period, neighbors in their new village falsely accused Nur Jahan’s father of aiding local youths in resisting the Myanmar government. As a result, he was kidnapped by NaTaLa Rakhine civilians. The family never saw him again, and his disappearance plunged them into despair. Without relatives to support them and facing ongoing threats, the family decided to flee to Bangladesh, seeking refuge in the overcrowded camps of Cox’s Bazar.
Life in the Refugee Camp
In the refugee camp, life was harsh, but the family tried to adapt. Hoping for a better future for Nur Jahan, her mother arranged her marriage to a kind-hearted man. Together, they had a baby girl, and for a time, life seemed to improve.
However, tragedy struck again when her husband died in a work-related accident in Bandarban. His untimely death left Nur Jahan alone to care for their young daughter. Two years later, she suffered another devastating loss with the passing of her mother, leaving her isolated and vulnerable.
Rebuilding Her Life
Determined to survive, Nur Jahan learned tailoring and began sewing clothes for neighbors to support her family. Despite her struggles, she found strength in her youngest brother, who was later relocated to Bhasan Char Island, adding to her sense of separation and loss.
Encouraged by neighbors, Nur Jahan remarried with the blessings of Allah. Her second husband proved to be a compassionate and supportive partner. Together, they had another baby girl and began building a new life in the camp. Her husband’s encouragement has been a source of hope, helping her find strength to face her painful past.
A Testament to Resilience
Today, Nur Jahan works as a tailor, contributing to the household income while raising her two daughters. She dreams of a better future for them, hoping they will grow up in a safe and stable environment where they can pursue education and lead dignified lives.
Nur Jahan’s journey is a powerful reminder of the struggles faced by countless Rohingya women. Her story sheds light on the horrific challenges endured by the Rohingya community, from persecution by the Myanmar government to violence by NaTaLa Rakhine civilians.
Her voice resonates with a plea to the international community: to acknowledge the suffering of the Rohingya people and to imagine the countless others whose stories remain untold. Despite the immense challenges, Nur Jahan’s unwavering hope and resilience continue to inspire.
