By: RO Maung Shwe
At 82 years old, Bolkis Begum stands as a living testament to the resilience and unyielding spirit of the Rohingya people. Born in the tranquil village of Kyet Yoe Pyine in Maungdaw Township, Rakhine State, her life has been anything but peaceful. From enduring unimaginable personal losses to braving the perilous journey to safety, Bolkis’ story is a poignant reminder of the sacrifices made by countless Rohingya in the face of oppression. Today, she resides in the world’s largest refugee camp in Cox’s Bazar, Bangladesh, carrying with her memories of a life torn apart by conflict yet held together by hope.
A Childhood Rooted in Stability
Born to Inna Amin and Shuwa Banu, Bolkis grew up in a middle-class family alongside her two brothers and three sisters. Her father, a skilled agriculturalist, provided stability and self-sufficiency for the family through their farmland. One of her brothers even found success in Yangon, Myanmar’s bustling capital, bringing pride to their household.
However, life took an unexpected turn when Bolkis was forced into a marriage against her parents’ wishes. Her husband, Abdur Rahman Shaab, was a senior member of a local armed group, the ‘Furikka.’ Despite the circumstances, she found joy in her two children, a son and a daughter, whom she considered gifts from Allah.
A Life Marked by Tragedy
The peace was short-lived. Abdur Rahman was tragically killed in a brutal military crackdown, an act of betrayal by locals with malicious intent. Left a widow at a young age, Bolkis faced insurmountable challenges in raising her two children. Against community pressure to remarry, she remained single, dedicating her life to their well-being.
Years later, tragedy struck again when her daughter passed away at the age of 35, leaving behind seven young children. Bolkis stepped in to support her grieving son-in-law and grandchildren, ensuring their survival and eventual marriages.
Her son, who became her anchor, was also taken from her in a horrific act of violence over a land dispute. His brutal murder left Bolkis reeling, once again taking on the role of caretaker for his children. To survive, she relied on the generosity of neighbors and often begged for food and resources, a testament to her strength and determination in the face of relentless adversity.
The Flight to Safety
In 2017, the military crackdown in Rakhine State forced Bolkis and her remaining family members to flee to Bangladesh. The perilous journey brought them to the overcrowded refugee camps in Cox’s Bazar, where the kindness of the Bangladeshi government and locals provided a lifeline. “The support they showed us—food, shelter, clothing—I will never forget their kindness,” she recalls.
Challenges in the Camps
Life in the camps brought new struggles. Bolkis initially lived with her elder grandson, who established a small shop that became a vital source of income for the family. However, false accusations led to his imprisonment, and the shops were forcibly taken from him. This injustice forced Bolkis to move in with another grandson, leaving her isolated from familiar surroundings and loved ones.
Her grandchildren, scattered across the camps, rely on humanitarian aid to survive. The separation from her family and homeland deepens her sorrow, yet she clings to the hope of returning to her native village in Arakan.
An Enduring Dream
Despite a lifetime of unimaginable hardship, Bolkis dreams of spending her final days in her homeland, surrounded by the memories of her youth. “I want to be laid to rest in the village where I was born, mourned by my relatives and neighbors,” she says.
A Story of Resilience and Hope
Bolkis Begum’s journey is one of pain, resilience, and unyielding hope. Her story sheds light on the enduring spirit of the Rohingya people and their quest for justice, dignity, and a place to call home.
